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	<title>Comments on: How I Became a Professional</title>
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		<title>By: Darryl Lewis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darryl Lewis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 03:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! You might remember that  around the time I turned 40 I suddenly became much more comfortable in my own skin than I&#039;d ever been before. I suddenly realized that it was perfectly OK that I&#039;d never become a rock star...just a wedding singer similar to Adam Sandler in the movie. In fact, maybe being a wedding singer was better. Rock stars play stadiums where security keeps them so separated from their fans that they can hardly see the smiles or get to know anyone. At weddings, the guests dance within feet of the band. You can see them smiling and dancing, and even talk with them.  You make less money than a rock star, but you have a greater personal impact on the lives to the people you&#039;re playing for.

I began to like me as I am, which allowed me to be more self-assured in my decisions and my interactions with others.

This post shows that you&#039;ve had the same kind of revelation about yourself...but earlier than I did. You&#039;re comfortable with yourself, which is my you can now be more open to what your clients want.

I&#039;m really proud of you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! You might remember that  around the time I turned 40 I suddenly became much more comfortable in my own skin than I&#8217;d ever been before. I suddenly realized that it was perfectly OK that I&#8217;d never become a rock star&#8230;just a wedding singer similar to Adam Sandler in the movie. In fact, maybe being a wedding singer was better. Rock stars play stadiums where security keeps them so separated from their fans that they can hardly see the smiles or get to know anyone. At weddings, the guests dance within feet of the band. You can see them smiling and dancing, and even talk with them.  You make less money than a rock star, but you have a greater personal impact on the lives to the people you&#8217;re playing for.</p>
<p>I began to like me as I am, which allowed me to be more self-assured in my decisions and my interactions with others.</p>
<p>This post shows that you&#8217;ve had the same kind of revelation about yourself&#8230;but earlier than I did. You&#8217;re comfortable with yourself, which is my you can now be more open to what your clients want.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m really proud of you!</p>
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		<title>By: kat</title>
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		<dc:creator>kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 16:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of what you said in here resonates in the world of software development as well. There are times that we wonder about our customer&#039;s sanity in what they want, but the ones of us who have done well on my team are the ones that are willing to work with the customer and who have learned to act mature instead of whine constantly. Thanks for the post Misty!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of what you said in here resonates in the world of software development as well. There are times that we wonder about our customer&#8217;s sanity in what they want, but the ones of us who have done well on my team are the ones that are willing to work with the customer and who have learned to act mature instead of whine constantly. Thanks for the post Misty!</p>
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		<title>By: GFMorris.com &#187; links for 2008-09-20</title>
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		<dc:creator>GFMorris.com &#187; links for 2008-09-20</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2008 21:42:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 00:41:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Agreed!  It resonated even to a stuffy ol&#039;bean counter.  And agreed, w/Goef, too. Coming to a place of contentment with your vocation (and more) is awesome.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agreed!  It resonated even to a stuffy ol&#8217;bean counter.  And agreed, w/Goef, too. Coming to a place of contentment with your vocation (and more) is awesome.  <img src='http://granades.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mark J Musante</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark J Musante</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 11:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post.  A lot of what you say applies to software consulting as well, so I found this something I can very much relate to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post.  A lot of what you say applies to software consulting as well, so I found this something I can very much relate to.</p>
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		<title>By: Geof F. Morris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Geof F. Morris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 10:56:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay!  I&#039;m happy that you&#039;ve found yourself in a good place with all of this.  :)  You do such good stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay!  I&#8217;m happy that you&#8217;ve found yourself in a good place with all of this.  <img src='http://granades.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   You do such good stuff.</p>
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